How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

It is day 42 of the Trump administration. Is the war in Ukraine over? Is inflation solved? Are groceries cheaper?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What made you feel satisfied about your life today?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do we still feel attached or jealous when a covert narcissist moves on, even after realizing their toxicity and the suffering they caused?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What happens if a parent refuses to let their child be transgender? What happens if the parent tries their hardest not to allow their child to be trans, like flushing every bottle of their trans child's HRT down the toilet?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Is there a stereotype that South Indians are physically strong and muscular compared to other regions of India?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do Americans and foreigners alike describe the USA as prudish? Why do I see nothing prudish about the USA society? USA feels like one of the loosest countries although Americans claim to be very reserved.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

My wife found I had been on Pornhub. She considers this adultery and wants a divorce. She hasn't touched me in over 6 years. What should I do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.